Venus in Virgo

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In the book Astrology of Seduction, one famous astrologer gives unflattering feedback about the position of Venus in Virgo. When speaking of this Venus, of course, she means that it is a Venus belonging to a male. The image of love towards females is displayed through the sign of Venus. Since Venus "falls" in Virgo, one can understand why this situation is interpreted negatively. The astrologer has Venus in Pisces, and the opposites do not like each other in particular. Therefore, I admit a certain prejudice from the side of famous astrologer. Such a guy is strict to the female sex, picky. If you are late for a meeting or a date, the following words will sound:

- You do not respect my time!

In our society, I think the patriarchal society "helped" to make this Venus more cynical and harsh against the female sex, considering them to be simply a serving staff. I won't be surprised if the male Venus in Virgo underestimates the beauty of women or depreciates her as a person. I would not like to dwell on the negative, many bad things are written about this position. We still need to look at aspects in the map. My Venus in Virgo has a harmonious aspect with Pluto, an exact sextile of 60 degrees (59 degrees 54 minutes) and I generally think that I get more benefits from my Venus than losses. In the map of women, this gives analytical skills in the field of relationships. In general, I am glad that I have Venus in Virgo!

In the map of the guy/man with Venus in Virgo, you can notice the desire to be useful. Every time a girl comes to him, he is immediately ready to help.

- Do you need anything? What do you want?

I think it is good when men understand that they should be able to serve ladies.

Of course, I didn’t use a person, but it was cool that he offered an opportunity to use him on my own purposes.

After some failures in her personal life, my classmate remembered a guy who was always there and helped solve problems. She could say "do it, do that, and he did". He did not demand anything in return. After breaking up with a boyfriend who underappreciated her, she remembered a guy who was always in sight ready to serve and appreciated him. I found Venus in Virgo in his chart. When I asked her whether he probably did not show his feelings. It turned out that yes, he did not show them at all!

In my case, I also do not show feelings. Although, for me, if a person does something, it means that he shows he appreciates. It may not be love, but it is an understanding that love is a verb. If you love, then you will do something for a person. I remember I didn’t know how to show my feelings and started just to help the person as I could. From the outside it seemed that I didn’t show my feelings, it’s all incomprehensible.
 I already thought "when will he understand?"

Venus in Virgo shows that a Cinderella syndrome can form in humans. When she sacrifices for the sake of the relationship and no one appreciates it. She will adapt to the needs of her spouse and will serve him, taking on household duties and working at the same time. Over time, she will develop hatred the person who made her work so much, almost for free. Victims for the sake of a future reward, which is not guaranteed. In the end, after 15-20 years, she remains devastated, used and exhausted. The situation is even worse if she does not like the person she married. Often, Venus in Virgo marries because it is necessary or age is pressing.

Virgo is a sign of service, hence the main value of Venus in this sign is the desire to be useful. Such people are hurt when their attempts to "serve" evoke condescension and arrogance from those whom they want to help. They may feel insulted if someone in their presence mistreats service personnel.
It's offensive if they had done something for someone for some time, and the person didn’t appreciate it and even insulted for “insincerity”, then usually such a trauma heals for a long time. After all, the “genius of service” is already a concept at a deep level and the one who laughs at this is simply stupid and does not understand how things work in this world.

Can the females with Venus in Virgo be happy?

Meygan Markle is happy with Prince Harry. So everything is possible.

Venus in the earth element especially appreciates the time. Venus in Virgo feels offended when a person says he/she is busy and has no time for her. A lot of work and so on. I think time can be found anyway, so if they say “no time, sorry,” especially if the guy says it, this is not my man and this relationship cannot be formed.

This is a strict rule. I myself appreciate the time and if I devote time, then I appreciate this person. If there is no time now, then you can find it after a while and warn in advance.

Kadir Dogulu in an interview answers the question what his wife Neslikhan Atagul considers a perfect day:

“It’s important for her when the day is useful and productive. I know that the days spent with the loved ones are useful for her"

I add that this Venus shows love through the time devoted to the loved ones.

Being rejected, such a Venus becomes evil and hardly forgives errors.

In general, Venus in Virgo does not want to make mistakes herself and carefully examines everything before making a choice.

I imagine what a hit was for Neslihan Atagyul to reveal the infidelity of her husband.

However, she managed to recover and decided to forgive the betrayal.

Famous actress Anna Snatkina got married late because she was building a career. Yes, probably there was not a perfect partner for her. In general, such people are able to live without relationships for a long time and wait.

Anna Snatkina was against civil marriage. Marriage for her is an obligation and responsibility, otherwise, as she admits you can slam the door after the first quarrel and leave.

I fully share the views of the actress, as my Venus is in Virgo too and I want marriage relations, I do not accept civil relations.

Earth Venus is very conservative, whether it is in Virgo, Taurus, and Capricorn.

Venus in Virgo is stricter than Venus in Taurus and is always afraid to make a mistake.

The book "100 traps in personal life" was written by the author with Venus and the Sun in Virgo. He went through the way of mistakes. A really useful book, other books always usually show only the ideal side and how it should be, but mistakes are also a way to learn.

Venus in the earth element also shows that a woman or a girl can adhere to traditional norms adopted in society. Agree that the male gender dominates the relationship and obey the husband. I also sometimes consider more what men want, not women. However, I correct myself as much as I can and do not allow the patriarchy to influence. Slavery is acceptable only if you really fall in love, which is unlikely for my reasonable Venus.

In general, I believe that a woman should have power because she works and sacrifices a lot for the sake of family and marriage.

As for tastes, then Venus in Virgo loves simplicity and modesty in clothes and make-up. Charlize Terron has Venus in Virgo. Watch the video where she was young and you will see that she was beautiful without makeup. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0jIvAOKbOM

Core values: health. A healthy person means a beautiful person. It is important to adhere to a certain nutritional system such as raw food so that the figure is always perfect, and the skin is clean. The purity and hygiene of the body is something without which such a Venus feels bad. In general, regarding the appearance this Venus is quite critical and sees both its own and others' drawbacks.

Pink and Carey Hart - another exemplary couple. Venus in Virgo in the chart of Carey Hard shows his taste in love. Pink is just what he needs, zodiac sign Virgo. Together since 2006. Pink was named after the color of the singer's face when she turned red because of shyness.